Understanding and Improving Our Relationships

Personal experiences with the Paths and the Sephiroth of the Kabbalah (the Tree of Life) can occur daily through our relationships, but we must remain conscious of the other person’s Life Purpose Force, Grounding Force, Assisting Force, Year of Life Force, Yearly Lesson Force, and Zodiac Force. We must also remain conscious of the Sephirah or Sephiroth they hold.

Discover the divine Forces shaping your Spiritual Journey: Understanding Our Spiritual Journey.
Discover the Paths and the Sephiroth you hold: The Colour of Our Eyes.

Enlightening Relationships

An Enlightening Relationship contributes directly to the soul’s growth of both individuals as it reveals aspects of enlightenment. If we hold the light of a Sephirah on either the Left Pillar or the Right Pillar with a diagonal Path, we can identify an Enlightening Relationship on the Kabbalah (the Tree of Life) with our horizontal opposite—also a Balanced Tree Relationship.
Example – Figure 1.1: XIX The Sun (blue eyes) with XVII The Star (blue eyes).

We are also greatly captivated by anyone who holds the Light of a higher Sephirah, but there must be a single connecting diagonal Path between our Sephirah and the other person’s Sephirah—only contributes to our soul’s growth.
Example – Figure 1.2: XII The Hanged Man (brown eyes) with either XIII Death, XIV Temperance, or XV The Devil (blue eyes).

Common Relationships

A Common Relationship is very comforting and grounding as both individuals share many similarities—an old friend you can always count on. We can identify a Common Relationship on the Kabbalah (the Tree of Life) with anyone who holds the same Sephirah and the same polar aspect of the Sephirah as we do (the light or the shadow).
Example – Figure 1.3: XIX The Sun (blue eyes) with XX Judgement (blue eyes).

Balanced Path Relationships

A Balanced Path Relationship also contributes directly to the soul’s growth of both individuals as it brings balance to our Life Purpose (the balance of the Path). One holds the light of the higher Sephirah and the other holds the shadow of the lower Sephirah. We can identify a Balanced Path Relationship on the Kabbalah (the Tree of Life) with anyone who holds the same divine energy associated with their Life Purpose as we do but holds the opposite Sephirah. If we have green eyes, we already hold the balance of the Path.
Example – Figure 1.4: XIX The Sun (blue eyes) with XIX The Sun (brown eyes).

Balanced Sephirah Relationships

A Balanced Sephirah Relationship also contributes directly to the soul’s growth of both individuals as it brings balance to our physical and spiritual experiences (the balance of the Sephirah). One holds the light, and the other holds the shadow. We can identify a Balanced Sephirah Relationship on the Kabbalah (the Tree of Life) with anyone who holds the opposite polar aspect of our Sephirah.
Example – Figure 1.5: XIX The Sun (blue eyes) with either XII The Hanged Man, XV The Devil, or XVI The Tower (brown eyes).

Balanced Tree Relationships

A Balanced Tree Relationship also contributes directly to the soul’s growth of both individuals as it brings a new perspective to our Life Purpose and our physical and spiritual experiences (the balance of the Tree). We can identify a Balanced Tree Relationship on the Kabbalah (the Tree of Life) with our horizontal opposite.
Example – Figure 1.6: XV The Devil (brown eyes) with XIII Death (brown eyes).

Divine Sibling Relationships

A Divine Sibling Relationship is not only very comforting and grounding, but also very energizing and supportive. We can identify a Divine Sibling Relationship on the Kabbalah (the Tree of Life) with anyone who holds the same divine energy associated with their Life Purpose as we do, and the same Sephirah and polar aspect of it as we do (also a Common Relationship).
Example – Figure 1.7: XIX The Sun (blue eyes) with XIX The Sun (blue eyes).

Improving a Relationship

We can gain wisdom and understanding and improve a relationship by contemplating on the divine energies associated with someone’s Life Purpose Force, Grounding Force, Assisting Force, Year of Life Force, Yearly Lesson Force, and Zodiac Force. Contemplating on a Tarot spreads for each of the PEMS bodies (physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual) that reflects the Sephiroth and the connecting Paths between two individuals will also reveal deep understanding and help improve the relationship.

Guidance We May Find Through Our Friends and Family Members

The personality and self-expression of friends and family members that hold the same Zodiac Force as our Life Purpose Force will teach us how to embody the divine energy and remain on the path that fulfills our soul’s growth. The personality and self-expression of friends and family members that hold the same Zodiac Force as our Grounding Force will help us find our balance and remain grounded on the Path that fulfills our soul’s growth. The personality and self-expression of friends and family members that hold the same Zodiac Force as our Assisting Force will manifest the experiences that we require to fulfill our soul’s growth.

The Eyes Meditation

The following meditation exercise will allow us to embody a deeper personal experience with the Path and Sephirah the other person holds, but it must be practiced with someone we love and trust (a spouse, a partner, a close friend, or a sibling) as we will be making ourselves vulnerable by removing our false mask, revealing our true self, and allowing the other person to look deep within our divine soul—we will be revealing our greatest ambitions and desires and our deepest fears and insecurities.

• Activate your palm chakras.
• Sit facing the other person in the Lotus position, with your knees touching.
• Rest your left hand with your palm facing up on your left knee and on the other person’s right knee and then rest your right hand with your palm facing down over the other person’s left hand.
• Maintain eye contact throughout this exercise, but as you look into the other person’s eyes, you must look past their physical eyes and enter deep within their soul as you allow them to also look deep within your soul—we will be channeling their higher self, and they will be channeling our higher self.
• You must remain conscious of the divine energy associated with their Life Purpose Force, and the Sephirah they hold.
• Start by spending a couple of minutes enjoying the connection and getting past any silliness or awkwardness.
• Then complete this meditation exercise for ten minutes.
• The final part of this meditation exercise is to have a heart-to-heart conversation with the other person, expressing anything and everything that we experienced through our physical and spiritual senses.

Eye Contact

A divine connection is established as soon as we make eye contact with someone, no matter the distance between us, and whether it was intentional or unintentional, with a stranger or a friend, or for a fraction of a second. A spontaneous personal experience with the Path and the Sephirah of someone also occurs as we make eye contact with them and are left in awe.

How to Find Your Soulmate, Your Twin Flame, and Love at First Sight

We can be attracted to someone physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually, but we can also experience a very deep connection with someone, even though we’ve only seen them once and locked eyes for a fraction of a second. This experience can feel like we are under a spell, and we can also sometimes feel an electric energy rushing through our body. Did we just cross paths with our soulmate, or our twin flame? Or is this love at first sight? This experience can also happen many times throughout our life, and with many different people—just because we are in a loving and committed relationship, doesn’t mean this can’t happen, or keep happening.

To understand what these experiences are, we first need to understand that our eternal soul is whole and undivided, it is unique in creation, and the only desire it holds is to either grow further through the physical-material experience of life, or help others grow. Our divine soul is not in search of another soul to be complete or fulfilled, but WE, the physical manifestation of our divine soul, WE desire to reunite with it once more—our soulmate, or our twin flame, is not another person, but our higher self, our divine soul. Therefore, why do we have these powerful connections or experiences with other people? We can use the Kabbalah as a map to gain wisdom and understanding on our relationships; I refer to these powerful connections and relationships we have with other people as enlightening relationships, as they either help us climb the tree, or they are our divine reflection, revealing aspects of enlightenment.

Sexual Magick

Sexual energy is a divine creative energy that we can use to alter our reality, to change our future, and to manifest our desires. The Major Arcana Tarot card “I The Magician” teaches us that when we receive this creative energy, we need to release it in a creative way by manifesting something positive and with love, on the physical-material realm. Sexual magick is capturing this divine creative energy as it’s being released and then storing it outside our physical body for later use—we can then access this energy whenever we need or desire it. This technique is not complicated, but we do need to make sure our visualization skills are well developed—we must be able to perfectly visualize the shape of the Hebrew letter Samech or any other letter of the Hebrew alphabet we desire to invoke. It’s also a simple three-step process, but it will move quickly.

• As you start to orgasm and you start to feel the energy rising, you need to quickly visualize the shape of the Hebrew letter in your crown chakra (through your third eye).
• As your orgasm peaks and the energy bursts out of your crown chakra, you need to visualize the Hebrew letter being filled with a very bright light.
• Once your orgasm ends, visualize the letter Samech shinning as bright as a star.

We have now sealed the divine creative energy in the Hebrew letter and keeping it stored in our Crown chakra, away from our physical body. Whenever we desire to access it, we must simply visualize the Hebrew letter shining as bright as a star in our Crown Chakra and we will instantly feel the energy pouring down into us. We can keep repeating this as many times as we desire until the energy is depleted, and we must then perform the sexual magick ritual again.

For self healing, you can visualize the Hebrew letter Samech and guide the energy wherever you desire, or you can also simply allow the energy to fill your entire body. If you are doing a healing on someone, you can guide the energy out of your right palm and into the other person.

There are twenty-two Hebrew letters that we can work with and each letter we use will dedicate the energy for a specific purpose. Working with the letter Samech (XIV Temperance) will dedicate the energy to health and balance, harmony, and synchronicity.

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